Guest Ryan Nickel- Professional Boob Reader

Hey guys welcome to the Learn Feng Shui podcast where you'll Learn Feng Shui from a classical point of view taking out the myth and Superstition so if you're interested in learning funu Chinese astrology all things Chinese metaphysics as well as the superstitions and myths that connect it all you'll enjoy learning funu with me hey guys welcome to today's episode so I'm very excited to bring on today's guest Ryan Nicholls so I teased this last week at the end of the episode if you stuck around you would have heard that I have a special guest Ryan nickel who is a professional boob reader and you heard that right so um just a couple different things before we get started um number one this is probably the first episode I've ever had to put an um explicit warning on not because I don't think I I do think the subjects are very tame I do think things are person a very professional in kind of straightforward way however the topics um do include things about our bodies and sexuality and per Spotify guidelines I did have to check that it was explicit an explicit episode um however nothing is is crass or anything like that I really want to approach the subject in a actually a very practical way because uh it brings me to point number two okay so you may ask what does this have to do with fun and uh it doesn't really have anything to do with fun however I do like to bring different perspectives this is it kind of FS falls in the realm of metaphysical right it's this intuitive reading but it also falls into the category which funu Falls so in the five Arts of Chinese metaphysics we have functuay which falls into the category of physiomer appearance of something and in Fun's case it's your environment well in Ryan Nichols case it is actually the appearance and shape of breast and nipples that he reads to get intuitive reading and I'm going to let you listen to the episode and we're going to go into how all that is done but just your uh you know kind of a little intro for today's episode if it's not for you you know um you're more than welcome to um skip this episode today and we can still be friends so anyway let's get into today's episode I think you'll find it as fascinating as I have and yeah just a very insightful conversation um let's get into it Ryan Nichols professional boob reader hey guys I want to welcome a special guest today Ryan Nicholls so Ryan niichel is a different kind of reader before we get into his bio um you know we've heard of face reading we may have even heard of palm reading right we've heard of these different types of of readings right so uh Ryan does a different type of reading Ryan actually does something called boob reading and this is something that he actually developed uh through his own line of work so Ryan nickel is a sexual healer and boob breeder Ryan has taken courses at The somatica Institute uh the intuitive wisdom Institute and also has a degree in sociology and is licensed in NLP which is neural linguistic programming um hypnosis and he has a topless talk show so Ryan helps women and couples find healing and release trapped negative emotions including shame and Trauma centered around sex giving them a second chance of love a newly saw life and the ability to move forward from the past and it's interesting fact he converted a former Church into a he a Sexual Healing Center Ryan is also a father of five and lives in Northern California oh welcome Ryan thanks for having me it's my pleasure to be here awesome so um you didn't start out as a boob breeder or a sexual healer so kind of getting into how how you shifted you know I think it's very interesting I've seen a lot of people they'll shift in from these very practical maybe even corporate positions and they go into something more intuitive or maybe they have to use um you know kind of use their uh yeah that that intuition kind of top tap into a different side of things but you actually started off uh as a real estate investor so how did the journey look from doing real estate into your sexual healing practice actually um I appreciate the question my my journey actually started before that um I graduated with a degree in social work and sociology and so I actually was a social worker for a number of years and I was on the other side of the spectrum I was actually working with men and women that had sexual addiction issues and then um the the crash happened in ' 08 and I realized I'm like I need to make some more money and so then I got into real estate that way and ironically when I got into the real estate it was buying and selling houses and buying distress properties to flip them and fix them up and when working with uh couples or individuals that are that have distressed houses they also have distressed lives and so it was just a continuation of my social work and so I made a lot of money doing that and um yeah transitioned to there was a point where I was just like not being fulfilled with the day-to-day of just flipping houses you know you make enough money to eventually you're just like this is this is okay this is more like like a job I want to do something that kind of fulfills me and um I was going through my own little journey sexually and I came up with the idea to start a topless talk show and then from there everything just kind of snowballed into what I'm doing today that's so interesting so one of the things that really catches my eye because of course this is a show that we usually focus on fun but um it it really is reflected in somebody's lives when they have a distressed home you know what you see going on inside a home or maybe even on the external of a home um especially when it comes to distress uh or a lot of accumulation of stuff there's a lot of accumulation also of emotions so yeah I think that's interesting yeah you're right so a lot of the houses that we would purchase um would be hoarder homes and hoarding is an emotional Detachment disorder basically is what it is yeah is hard time letting stuff go which they hold on to things and that's in their personal life and their relationships and of course it manifests in their physical environment as well yeah that's that's very true um so how did you start on the journey to becoming a sexual healing coach specifically so I know you talked about the topless talk so what did that Journey look for you um actual being you know coming into it and and offering it as a a service and opening up a sexual like basically Wellness uh yeah for sure so yeah so I guess they answer the question is probably give a little bit of backstory for that is um so I grew up in a very conservative religion and I felt very repressed and um you know I went through the whole thing I saved myself from Marriage only to have my first wife leave me and tell me that I was not sexually satisfying to her and it just kind of crushed me got married again um this time I'm like well I'm not going to look for a sexual partner I'm going to look for a spouse I want or a wife that's going to be a good mother and so I married a beautiful you know mother she we raised five beautiful kids and we're amazing co-parents but the sexual compatibility after the kids get old enough is like just wasn't there and so it it made me realize that I was just kind of struggling myself internally with my own sexuality in the way that I wanted to express it and coming from a very conservative religion it's like you know you don't do anything outside the bounds of marriage and so I respected that but at the same time I wasn't being fulfilled and um I was supplementing my I guess um you know lack of sex in the relationship with porn and so porn became like my new go-to and you know porn never says no but at the same time I was feeling guilt and shame for doing this and um during this time I had lost 50 pounds so I just went through this weight loss journey and I was just kind of feeling myself I'm like I'm feeling sexy I'm 41 years old and all of this and so up here in Northern California we have kind of like the free love hippies and stuff like that and so I went to the river one day and there was just a bunch of naked women I'm like oh my God what's happening here so I literally just shed my inhibitions and got naked and I'm talking to people and for the first time I'm talking to somebody and there's no sexual arousal and we're completely naked in nature on the river just having conversations about life and kids and just like you know shopping the grocery store and just like mundane things and I literally came home and like that never had the desire to look at porn and I was like there's something to this and so I would keep going back to the river and then the river it got got kind of cold here in Northern California and I'm like oh so I started going through withdrawals because now I wasn't in my environment with my people and literally one night I had um an early morning actually it was like 3 in the morning I had this dream and it woke me up and it was just like bring the river to you and I'm like oh God okay so that's where the idea of topless talk came about so that's where I I developed the topless talk show and in that opportunity so at first it was like I was like ah this is my opportunity to see boobs you know this is what I like and then I have women and they would come on and topless talk kind of took a whole different role where like topless was like no this is like no topics are off limits let's talk about the you know sex and relationships The Good the Bad and the Ugly and it became very therapeutic so these women were sharing stories for the first time that they've never shared with anybody and then afterwards they like oh my God like I didn't realize how healing it was just to tell my story and at that point that's when I realized I'm like this show is bigger than me this is not about you know wanting to see boobs and things like that and so they so we started getting more and more guests and they would come on and they would share I mean not everyone was topless for the show we do have a whole wall of boobs there in the studio because you know it's it's fun we have a polar away we take pictures but that's not a requirement to be on the show the requirement is just let's come and you know share your story and let your story be you know a light for someone else that's going through a very difficult time that they can see that they're not the only ones that are going through it that there's like There's Hope at the end of that journey and it was in that point where I realize that I'm actually talking to people in a very therapeutic way that I realized I'm like um this is more of a of a therapeutic show than it actually is entertainment and so it was at that point when I realized I need to actually go back to school get you know further my education and become more trauma aware um because it had been you know 10 years 15 years since I graduated from from the University and so that was kind of like the how it all just started where topless talk kind of took on this very therapeutic role and then I started realizing that oh okay I'm helping these individuals that want help outside of the studio as well and then that's where sexual healing started to just kind of snowball naturally oh that's so interesting so um again there's going to be somebody that that says like well you just want to look at boobs or you just want to you know be all the time you know of course right so of course we have to address that right and so I I really appreciate you talking about the fact that you take you were able to to to take the I guess arousal that you know the sexuality kind of out of you know just being around somebody maybe being nude so I'll kind of compare it this way um back before I started doing fun I actually have held a cosmetology license for over 20 years and so when I was doing hair and stuff like that I did body waxing okay so I did men and women and I did from head to toe right so yeah did Brazilian waxes and there there's just a level of taking out looking at the person in a sexual way when you're working with them and so I kind I would kind of compare it the same way because I'm literally seeing their genitals you know men and women you know and never once did the thought ever cross my mind that like hey this person's like attractive or like their body or something like that and so I just want to kind of clarify that and kind of bring that point up you know that's a good point too so I so um the two main uh things that I get um I don't know if you want to call like a backlash for is oh this guy's just a pervert he wants to see boobs and the other thing is isn't he married what's wrong with his wife he should be ashamed of himself and it's it's really interesting those are the two extremes that I get and you know to your point um compartmentalization is is a is a great thing as well and so I mean to your point here like you know you don't have these sexual desires to be with people you're working with you're like no this is this is work I'm I'm helping somebody here so what does the coaching look like so what I've discovered and this is from my own personal Journey so I went through this myself is that we the body keeps score and and so since the body keeps score but no one has taught us like well how do we even the score you know you just we don't want to walk around with this body that's just getting beat up everywhere we go because of all the experiences that we've had and the thing that I recognize about trauma is that trauma isn't necessarily what happens to us but it's a m it's what happens inside of us as a result of what happened to us so like you and I can go through the same event and one of us can come out perfectly unscathed and the other person can be like like traumatized for life it's because it's true process and so what happens is these emotions these the trauma negative experiences they get trapped inside of us and and they cannot be moved energetically and so what I've discovered is that if I can identify what someone's you know core emotional wound is then I can also identify how to heal that person and what I've noticed is that the body its natural desire is to heal itself and so if we have these these negative core wounds that we have the body wants to serve up experiences that are going to give us a an emotion that's going to help help you eliminate the core w wound emotion and so sexuality is a huge part of that and so what I discovered is that we have natural Sexual Healing desires as well and these natural healing desires that we have that are sexual are going to create an emotion for the person to heal the emotional wound that they have and most women um that I've work with will confuse the idea of like oh my God I'm getting out of this relationship it it opened up a little bit of a wound for me but my body's telling me to be sexual well yeah of course it is it's telling you to be sexual because there's a healing emotion at the end at the end of that Journey but they confus their sexuality for as as as the journey for healing and so what they'll do is they'll enter into like their their ho phase and they'll just go out there and just do all these things thinking that that's how they're going to heal and it's an accidental approach to actually try to find Healing I went through this myself and I'm just like well my body's telling me to do this but I didn't understand the whole thing that I understand now and so what I do with with uh with women that have these these core wounds is identify what's the core wound and then what is your sexual healing desire and then I put those together and then we release it through orgasm and the orgasm is the energetic release that just allows for the body to strip the negative emotions out but replace it with the new emotion and I always get this question so I'll go ahead and answer it now it's like well I should be healed already I'm having sex and orgasming all over the place either with myself or with my partners and the reality is is if it's not done with the intention to go in excuse me and actually have the um Sexual Healing desire be the core desire the core emotion that's being um you know heightened if you will if so if that's if the if the case is if they're just going into having sex and it's just a physical act action rather than the emotional and mental action that could be there then they're not hitting the height that it could be in order to have healing and that's what really has to happen and they kind of circle all of that back like how do I find out what someone's you know Sexual Healing desires are and what these things are that's where boot breeding came into Play Because unconsciously what's happening mentally and emotionally every single month breasts are Chang in shape and size some of that has to do with hormones other of that is that it's a mental and emotional distress on the body and your breast are telling that story and so I actually have learned over time to read what is the story that your body is saying that it needs in order to heal and so that's part of the very first diagnosis that we do when we go into an actual Sexual Healing Arrangement before we move on one of the things um I guess I want to mention about uh release through orgasm is that we hear I don't know how much you follow like different metaphysical or like um practices like that but there is things called like Sex Magic where you perform sexual acts to manifest you know and so I I do think there really is something to um the release and sexual power that you know that I guess an orgasm can can bring forth you know yeah Sex Magic is something that I actually do practice um another thing that I also practice as well is um I'm sure you probably refer to this as well like is Yoni massages and you know that sacred um massage experience as well um coupled with vaginal reflexology allows me to identify where the emotions are and how to release them because women trap a lot of their emotions in their chest and also in their hips and so a lot of releases do happen that way they're very powerful and profound um even fun falls into the category of phom which is the stady or shape of the appearance of something I mean literally boob reading is just the study of the shape and the appearance of the boobs but you also get an intuitive reading when you do so you look at the physical appearance of the the chest and then you have a almost like a I would say like a psychic reading or an intuition reading but you call it to tuition which I think is really cool yeah actually so um the way it started was on the topless talk show was a fun segment that we did it was you know like you said you mentioned tit tuition so having gone through the intuitive wisdom Institute I became really intuitive and I was able you know if someone was willing to Bear their chest I was able to like you know basically their open open their soul up I could just do an intuitive read on them um on their relationships and and and certain things about them and um you know that was kind of where it was so I just did a lot of intuitive readings and I got a lot a lot of blowback too like well if you're intuitive then you don't really need to see their chat you don't need to see their breasts in order to do that and you know to some extent that's true but I also needed the permission from the person so from them like revealing that was the permission that that was needed um but then I went back and I listened to all of my readings and I was looking at all of the because I have pictures of the breast that we we that I've done readings for because um some of the readings were in person some of the Reas readings were just from a photograph um that they sent and um I started looking and I recognized patterns and I started I was like oh my god there actually is a physical pattern that matched the intuitive reading and so it was probably that was uh probably about six months ago when I did that research I went back and started looking all the shapes and sizes and nipple place placements and things like that that I recognized um the pattern but then I also discovered a few different things that I was missing before I was like oh my God I didn't see this before but now this this makes sense so yeah now I actually do physically read the breast so it's an actual true boob reading and with the intuitive TI tuition at the end and it's really interesting because now when I do the tit tuition it's backed up by the reading beforehand and I'll be like and this is why this is happening and it's just these huge aha moments for these women and then some of them start crying and they're like I always felt this but I didn't know why and and just it's just a beautiful experience for them because now they realize that a complete stranger who knows nothing about them and this is why I do the boob readings first is because before I get their personal story I want to prove to them like hey I really can tell a lot about you without ever knowing you and that g that that gardeners a lot of trust especially when you're talking about intimate you know uh relationships and things like that when sexual healing and so when I start with the blue and that really opens them up to like okay what else can this guy help me with if he can see this much from a picture or in person not even knowing me then I I definitely want to go on this journey with this guy that's one thing I was going to ask you about too because I mean bearing your your body you know and trusting somebody with you know a sexual healing Journey does take a lot of trust so um how do you how in addition to that how else do you help build trust with your clients um it's it's usually a gut feel I usually uh I hear this in the first meeting with the person they're like I trust you completely like I just I have this trust you have these very soft eyes I can tell that you're not predatory that you're actually truly here to help me and often times like I'll cry with people like I'll be given a reading and they'll Hit me hard and I'm like oh my God like I did not know this about you and she's like what I'm like and I just say it she like and then she's crying because she's like [ __ ] I thought I could I was hiding this so you are very easy to talk to though cuz I I feel like I could just sit and chat with you and you know like like we're friends or something like we could have coffee or something and we could just chitchat you know so I do feel like you're a very trusting person and again that just kind of goes into I mean I guess you have to be I think the reality is is that I really don't have like there's no predatory uh feelings there's no like sexual manipulation happening at all this is just me honestly just trying to help somebody move on and that's the real gratification that I get is knowing that I've given someone a second chance to find love without the entanglements from the past creeping in and destroying that relationship or sabotaging it that's exactly what I was going to say um yeah so um I do feel like for a woman I know we're talking ahead of you know press and record for a woman that deals with things like shame and Trauma and you know just for all kinds of reasons you know and maybe unable to move on or or even be satisfied sexually I think that it it's so important to maybe even work through that with a man especially when maybe a man has caused trauma you know so I think that's that's super important to be able to to know that you can trust a man like that you know and to to move on I suppose you know to find that closure I've never worked with anyone that has had trauma that hasn't been caused by a man yeah unfortunately that's very sad yeah yeah so that's yeah that's very sad I think there's so many story especially with now with the you know the the me too and you know I don't know if you follow celebrity stories but I do like the Danny Masterson thing where you know like all of these horrific stories you know come out uh they're they're coming out and I just think that um it's a time uh maybe in history that it really is you know going to be the woman taking charge of their own uh healing the sexuality you know you know really standing up for themselves and speaking out and stuff like that so I do think that's it's a bit of a challenge well some of the women they have for example taken charge of their of their um of their sexual ity there's there's different energies that they they tap into and sometimes they become very masculine in their approach and then they they look for very submissive men but what happens is they're not able to get off or to to climax or to have orgasms um because they're the ones that are the dominant ones in that relationship and the submissives are not being able to provide them what they need and this isn't this is probably I don't want to make make a blanket statement but the women that I've worked with this has been a lot of their challenges is they can't get out of their head now because now they're like thinking like well maybe there's something wrong with my body maybe there's something that I've done wrong here and so all it is is just the energy shift that they've taken and so they're trying to find that balance and so some of them reach out to me they like look I've been with um case point a very successful doctor here in town um she's been with 11 people in the last three years and she says only five have actually got to me to where I've been where I where I've needed to to actually go to actually Climax and she said then they required a lot of alcohol and those were the five dominant men who kind of just like put me in my place and let me just be submissive and because she's very success successful she's very powerful in what she does she finds men that are subservient to her and that's why she's being her sexual frustration is that these men are not able to please me and when the reality is is that she's choosing Partners be based on a wound because she went in not to get too you know too deep into her personal story but um she felt inferior as a woman and went became very powerful and so now she only looks for men to you know lack her better word you know control and show that she's better than and they're not able to please her because she doesn't allow them to please because she thinks she's better than them and so it's just the cycle that she's in that's when we met up and so that's how I've been able to help her I suppose we fall into the Trap of those patterns and I they can be hard to break I think you know they can be very hard to break um I've and I think a lot of women do unfortunately have trouble climaxing um and to me that's that's sad you know what I mean like so you know kind kind of circle that back to um you know so that's the educational aspect of it but bring into like the sexual healing realm I'll have women will come in and they can't get out of their head and into their body and they're like well I'm thinking about my partner I'm thinking like oh maybe he's getting tired or maybe he doesn't want to do this or maybe he's not as attracted to me as I thought and all of those are just symptoms of a deep core wound of worthlessness that they feel that they're not worthy of it like ah I'm not worthy for this person to spend this kind of time and Devotion to get me to where I need to be I'm just going to serve him and I'll just give him what he needs and that and that makes me happy and that's a lie because it really doesn't make you happy it may make you happy the first or second time but prolonged in a relationship or a marriage it's not and it it stems from a core wound that happened to him as a child early on about you know not being worthy you know worthlessness something happened where they were rejected and that's how they internalize that and so the really the only other way to and so the sexual healing desire that I've learned to match up as well with with like say worthiness is desirability so the Cure is actually what they don't want is the person to actually spend time and to love on them and to really focus on their pleasure and let them know that they really are desirable and that's the healing that'll actually heal their wound and so you you actually work with couples also so what what does it look like when you work with a couple I mean it's the same sort of basis of identifying uh stuff like that I've never had a man identifying like hey can I can you help me it's usually been a woman that I've worked with and they've gone and they found a partner who they're who they're emotionally attached to but maybe the physical aspect isn't there and they're like hey can you work with us on this can you teach him some of the techniques that you know can you teach him this and he's open to it because he's in love with her and he's not ashamed and he's he realizes that there's no threat like I'm not going to steal his wife or his woman or anything like that and so it's usually referral based um so yeah it's usually someone I've worked with in the past and and rightfully so like they've raised their standards they're like okay I'm no longer going to play down here like this is what I deserve I'm worth it and they find a guy who's on par with them you know energetically emotionally and things like that but maybe his sexual game is not where it should be and no shame in that cuz God I didn't even know I'm 41 years old only two women my entire life and I wasn't I wasn't satisfying anybody because I didn't even know how to do that I literally had to hire coaches to teach me how to do this and so I spent close to $50,000 in my personal education to become where I'm at today and so I I I bring these people in I'm like hey this is a beautiful experience for you guys you're going to grow in bond and heal together and you're going to elevate each other and so that's how it's approached and I I mean I definitely think you know like you talked about your your lack of experience and stuff like that in that department um it's totally normal you know um but it it can be learned you know it can be learned so it's something that can definitely be worked on it's totally normal and it can be learned 100% see kind of going back to the boob reading here let's let's address you know the trauma kind of being stored in your chest and your hips so I've heard that trauma like I've heard that before you know that trauma is stored in the hips not so much in the chest can you talk a little bit more about that yeah so so um so tightness of the muscles uh it can manifest as well but it also shows itself in in physical manifestations so for example there was a woman recently that so um both of her breasts um as I was as I was reading them she had uh one nipple uh in one in one one of her nipples in her areolas were were just completely like you know normal looks looks fine the other breast um had the the nipple and the aola and then half the areola was just kind of missing like it was was like blown out and like it just kind of like went across the the boob um for several inches uh very abnormal and and as I was reading this I was like I was like this is a boundary issue I'm like not just a not just a boundary issue so when women have boundaries they're either um boundary issues are either not properly defined or if they're defined they're not properly defended this woman had defined boundaries um and either she had tried to defend but they were like forcefully blown out and i' had never seen that before and so I was reading I was like I was like I mentioned to her I was like you have this boundary that you've tried desperately to defend that has just been ran over and blown out and she just she just broke down and she just started sobbing and she was she had told me that she had been victim of sexual assault numerous numerous numerous numerous times um from boyfriends from um friends from co-workers just almost anybody in her life that saw her took advantage of her in that way and um it that trauma was manifest there in in her actual physical breast the way that it was that it was you know showing up and she said she's like my arola never used to look like this she's like I used to have beautiful breasts I'm very self-conscious of my breasts now I don't want to show my breast to anybody because I'm very insecure about what's happening here she's like what you're saying like you don't know me you don't know anything about me but what you're you're describing here makes perfect sense and then she's like is there hope for me like can this go back can this like you know fix um I don't know the answer to that question I've seen nipple placements move as as breasts change shape and size and either fill up or or reduce down um I don't know about aerialist and so this is something we're tracking I I feel like so many women have like shame especially if there's things like asymmetry or um different nipple shapes and sizes stuff like that you know yeah those definitely tell a story and I've had to learn to be very careful with my words and sometimes I approach it like look I'm in flow I'm just going to use words that are easy for descriptive purposes just to go through this but it's you know if anything doesn't land well like it's not meant to be harmful like this is coming from a place of love but I've had to definitely work on my delivery um to avoid words like normal because you know the moment the moment you say oh this is a normal looking breast and this one isn't now you've youve you yeah you introduced a little bit of Shame here because now it's a comparative thing like well I'm not normal anymore and so yeah it's been very difficult to to find the you proper wording to be allinclusive and still not um you know cause any more damage and shame like I recently was with a a woman um I gave her a reading and um her nipple placement on one breast was right center in the middle the other one was up in the middle and on the side inward um and it was interesting on on that particular reading like I've that was the first time I've actually had a nipple placement so far out of symmetry um come to find out there was a reason for it so kind of looking at that thing some common um issues that somebody could be facing with her breast what does that mean like so what would like maybe um asymmetrical breast like maybe one bigger than the other I think that's very common actually um I've I've heard of it a lot I've seen I know people that have it you know so uh what does that mean is there certain things it means spefic yes it does um and it's not permanent I'll tell you that so it's the flow of energy and it depends on the person um so uh one breast larger than the other so one one breast represents your uh your your nesting so if you're a mother it's who you care for because because your breasts are are are symbolic of like love and care and nurture and things like that so so one breast is representation of you know your children the people that you that that are in your life that you care for um if you don't have children then I've seen be pets or I've also um been able to to uh like I called like I did a reading one time on a woman hers was definitely you know there was a a asymmetry on happening and um and I knew she didn't have children and I'm like you're caring for somebody and you're really it's really draining on you and I can tell like by the of your of your breast come to find out she's a caregiver for her mom had no idea her mom has dementia and Alzheimer's and so um one so one side means like it's it's something that you have care for and love and nurture the other one is your romantic partner or partners and so depending on the the breast one being larger than the other means uh either typically what it means if it's if it's kind of deflated if you will is that they're they're just they're they're exhausted they're expended there's nothing there to give and they just have nothing to do and usually what happens is nipple placement tends to be on the lower side of the breast because it's just exhausted there's no nurture to give because it's that's what happens if the breast is a little bit larger um and larger means like it's it's kind of looks like it's like you know if you're breastfeeding it gets engorged it looks like it's larger than it than it should be uh that is also a sign that the energy that you have that you have a lot of love to give a lot of nurture to give but it's not being received and so your body is retaining it because your partner is rejecting it or there's no one to give it to and so it starts to cause a swell and that's usually what that means in that particular breast and that nipple placement will usually be higher because it's it's ready to give like you know you're ready like to breastfeed your baby it's like it's right there and um so that's what I've discovered with with the asymmetry is that it's the flow of energy with the body so whatever's happening mentally and emotionally is being represented so your breast will change in shape and size and that's one of the the the the meanings for that is either you're not uh you're not able to give the love that you have or you're giving it and it's not being reciprocated back so the energy is not flowing back to you and so you're just becoming deflated because it's just like I give and give and give and never receive or I have so much to give and no one wants it they're rejecting me so it's just you know it's this dichotomy that's happening an extra nipple have you ever seen an extra nipple like apparently that's pretty common yeah it's a very common thing I actually never have seen an extra nipple unfortunately oh I wonder what that would mean yeah and then so another common thing that I kind of looked up I was trying to look up some just some common differences you know that that people have in their breasts um tubular breast so I guess very long um and and uh you know downward uh type breast yeah so usually women that have larger breasts are usually a lot more caring and giving and sometimes to their detriment so usually what happens is they give so much too much that it's just becomes a drain on them that becomes tiring because it's not being reciprocated back um and it all goes back to nipple placement too because usually tubular breasts will have and actually I've seen this happen um so tubular usually have the nipple at the very very bottom of the of the breast and when they control the boundaries and they and they start to to flow naturally with like they either with their children or with their lovers the breasts that are tubular will actually start to rise a little bit and the nipple placement will come up and they become more bell-shaped and I and I and I physically have seen that happen uh more than once that's so interesting that's really fascinating so we can tell lot by somebody's breast who knew right I guess you did yeah you knew or you discovered was there anything else you'd like to to add here to the the conversation before we close um yeah you know this is um it started off as kind of like a tongue-and-cheek thing for the for the uh the podcast that I have the topless talk show it it really turned it it's really turned into just a beautiful thing where um I found that even though I don't work with everyone that that I give readings to it's just been a very therapeutic for them to realize wow I didn't realize this was happening in my relationship either with my children or my family or with spouse and um one person that comes to mind in particular you know I never never thought that she would have asked for a reading um she's not even um she's an acquaintance that I have I've never even met in person she's like a Facebook friend and um and we don't see anything eye to eye on anything so every time I post something she's like my antagonist she's always like this is not right blah blah blah and I'm like whatever but one day I get this this message um on messenger and she just said hey I'm really having a hard time what are my breasts saying and I was like oh the person who who antagonizes almost every post of mine thinks that I actually have something that I can offer her and um I just like threw my ego aside I'm like you know what no problem I'll go ahead and I'll do this reading and I gave her this reading and there were as you mentioned there was an imbalance there was an as asymmetry happening and and I told her what it meant and she came she messaged me back in voice and just was crying and he's like it took everything I had not to to want to like find out where you lived and come talk to you in person because I don't know how you knew this about what's happening but this is what's happening and and I she shared some very vulnerable things with me and um for her it was eye opening she's like I didn't realize that this particular path that I had been on and I don't know anything about her other than she doesn't like my post and she um she's like this really makes me want to like like she's crying and she's like I just have to stop and realize the hurt that I'm causing these people in my life because I thought that this was for me and my pleasure and my my you know peace of mind realiz not realizing that it's actually affecting these people over here and she's like I never would have saw that if it wasn't for this reading and so for me that was very validating that a complete stranger who sometimes you know you you don't you don't like you don't agree with everybody on every topic and that she one had the humility to come to me and I had the the ability to just you know for get everything from the past and just you know help her out and it became a very therapeutic opportunity for her just to realize about herself and then she made the changes that she need to and she moved on so yeah I I I guess what I would like to just you know end with maybe is that you know boob reading isn't sexual it's about understanding yourself and your relationships and how you can either improve or you know continue what you're doing I told many women too they have reached out to me I'm like you're doing everything fantastic like you have great boundaries you have great energy I can see everything here like this is like congratul ulations continue doing what you're doing like you're doing a lot of things right and it was very validating for them because you know they were worried like I don't know if if I'm doing everything okay here oh thank you so much that's that's that's so interesting and that's such an interesting conversation I appreciate you coming on that was my pleasure thank you awesome well we're GNA include links and show notes um and everything so people can find you so all your social medias and everything and you do post some of your boob reading I don't I know you post them on Tik Tok I don't know if you post them in other places it might be a little bit hard to post them on social media sometimes so that's where I fail you find on Tik Tok yeah every video that I posted has been flagged multiple times okay but I've gone through the guidelines in the community standards to so the videos I have get reposted afterwards after they go through but yeah I'm actually posting three more today so awesome cool so yeah so if you're curious definitely go check that out and again if anyone needs to get a hold of you we'll include links so people can talk to you so again we focus on our physical well-being you know we focus on our our home you know and we want all these things to be good but how often do we actually focus on our sexual health so I appreciate you coming and talking just being very open today it my pleasure thank you for having me thank you all right guys well I hope you found today's episode insightful I know I enjoyed uh speaking with Ryan and I think it's a part of ourselves that maybe we need healed in some sort of way you know many of us just as humans right something we all think about something that just all occurs to us as uh these human in these human bodies you know so just something to think about we pick up trauma along the way can kind of carry with us you know so yeah if you need to get a hold of Ryan if you uh need a boob breeding maybe you want to work with him professionally or just check out his topless talk show on YouTube do check those links in the show notes and uh enjoyed having them on again so um let me know what you thought about in the Spotify Q&A below and I'll catch you guys next week for a funu for the kitchen let's get our kitchens ready for the holidays for a free energy mapping of your floor plan please check the link in the show notes to support today's 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